I totally agree, my sitch is strange!! lol I guess on my journey I have found that in the end there where 2 paths I could choose. 1. Fighting my H to stay M (which is what I wanted)but was getting me no where. or 2. Choose what was comfortable for him, which seems to be getting D and continuing to regain our friendship & closeness. Both or either could turn out to be a no win situation. In the end I'm finding that I'm happy, content with either of them. I guess, I'm learning it doesn't have to be MY way. I don't think there is an ow involved (as he told me last month he had not dated anyone since we have been apart). Was he telling the truth, or lying as to not hurt me. Don't know & will not torment myself with it.

Yes, martinis esp. dirty martinis (vodka & green olive juice) are an acquired taste. Yet chocolate martinis are delicious (vodka & chocolate liquier). Probably, anything put in a martini glass, you could call a martini. Vodka or vanilla vodka & root beer is good too as well as vodka & hot coco. BTW - no I'm not Russian - with my vodker obbession! \:\)

Kenn, a viking book is simply or the one I gave my H was simply a historical book about the viking age.


Me39, XH45
Kids 3 dogs, 2 cats
Divorced 6/4/09
Tricky thing is not how you live, but how you live with yourself. (POTC)