OK, so let's say she calls you tonight and says she's definitely not coming back...what would your course of action be then? Would you try to change her mind? Finally move on? Turn her in for what she's done?
Good questions. Per DB guidelines, I would not try to change her mind as that would be pursuing, whining, begging, pleading, whatever you want to call it. Yes, I would finally move on. But it's not over till there is a divorce and according to this site, it's not even over then if I don't want it to be. I am still considering if I should turn her in at this point. I would consider if she gets nasty and tries to get custody of my daughter--other than that, I'm not sure at this point.
I guess in a way, I tried to prepare you for the conversation that took place tonight...(And no, I do not know your W...)
I'm sorry your sitch looks like it's not going to turn out the way you had hoped.
But I said it once (or twice) and I'll say it over and over until you believe it: You deserve better...
