Oldtimers: IS Mlcer good parent after crises?

[peacetoday]

As Time
No I never met her
In our agreement , she can meet the kids in december 2009/not before
the weird thing is all this time 2 years my XH never wanted her to meet the kids until I confronted him when I found a lease

she is 28 and worked for my xh in 10/2005 for a few months
MY X and I will start co-parenting counseling next week, so Im sure that will help
thansk for checking in
peace