Originally Posted By: braveheart
Originally Posted By: sunshinelewis
Just want you all to know I am having a pretty good week.
I am preparing for my nephew's birthday, he will be 10.
XH still hasnt talked or asked about me....nothing new, didnt expect him to.
I was a little down tonight thought due to my financial situation. I am scared of NOT making it. I dont have anyone to turn to but my aunt and she cant help much.
It really would make my day if xh called and offered a hand.
I can wish and hope cant I. ;\)


I am so very sorry that you are having it tough financally. Unfortunately, that is one of the signature problems that happens with this. You can forget about any help from XH. It seems to me that a big part of this MLC, or whatever you wish to call it is to make certain that nothing is done moneywise. I don't really know why that is, but they could care less if you have a place to live, anything to eat, or any basic needs. Can't count on any help from him Renee, look at a refyi on your house, maybe another job? Its tough I know.


Braveheart does their heart just turn cold. I am being quite honest when I say this man ALWAYS took care of us, he even worked 2 jobs sometimes to make sure we had enough. Some people will even say he "worshiped me", so to speak. No one, and I mean no one expected this out of him. His whole life has changed.
It truly must be an emotional illness. What else would explain what is happening. This man that loved me so much told me he wanted to erase the past he had with me. He said this out of anger, but most of the stuff they say is out of anger, right?
Its sad, really really sad, especially for them.


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