I think it all sounds wonderful!!! Yeah, if he was happy, it does seem like he would look it or not look miserable. I love that he noticed how hot you looked, and it was great that he knows you don't plan to sit on a shelf in case he might be interested in you again someday. And yeah, that person when you get remarried would be a huge figure in your kids' life, b/c I know some guy is not going to let you get away! I think WAS have all this stuff planned out and then it doesn't wind up like they wanted, which is good.