Counseling is Non-negotiable. IF she wants to come back (And it truly is IF at this point) she has to agree to it. Last time I mentioned it, she said she didn't want it or think that she needed it.
Shyaeah, right!
She is getting more chatty with my family; asking about how a nephew of ours is doing, writing more stuff on FB, etc. But she is still ignoring me pretty much. She did ask me to call her tomorrow when she will be over at her sister's house babysitting (and who is also, incidentally, going through a divorce right now that was ignited by an A).
It really makes it hard to plan our family vacation this year if I don't know if she will be in or out. If in, we won't have much money, so we will have to do something nearby. If out, then we can spend a little more and go someplace nicer. I realize that I don't get to dictate the timeline here, so I guess our vacation is only one more thing that is in limbo for the time-being.
Me40 WAW37 M18 T20 S18,14 D13 EA Bomb 6/08 Sep 11/20/08 Ret 08/09 Sep/Filed 11/09
