Partner left after 9 yrs -Over with ow yet or not?

[AliSuddenly]

Hey guys.. no Naej, I am mortgaged, credit carded and loaned up to my eyeballs and then some, thats why the money is still in his name! He was super nice about it though, really.

So I went (knew he wasnt coming anyway) had a lovely evening with Cher and G, as usual he wouldnt let me pay for a thing (but then he is loaded, so I have given up trying !!). I wasnt supposed to know, but after one too many vodka and limes, Cher told me that the reason ex didnt come tonight was because...

he finished with helen.

He rang me 5-5.15ish then G rang him 8.30, when he told G he had ended it with her tonight! So he cant have spent a long time doing it (2 hours max?). He said he didnt want to come out as he felt really bad after dumping her. G and him are going out for a beer tommorow for a post match analysis.

Of course I am pleased, relieved mostly.. but if I dont sound excited.. to be honest, I kind of felt sorry for her and a bit annoyed at him for staying with her for so long that she got attached to him and he has hurt her. As a member of the sisterhood, thats not nice!...Still, that whole May thing is looking pretty likely hey!

I thought he might. I realised from his email, he is not in her office from today, he had a site visit tommorow and then was back in his own office from Monday and said how glad he was to get back to 'stability'. So I had a feeling, but I thought he might do it over the weekend. Wow, he couldnt stand her that much that he did it on a Thursday. Guess he really meant it when he said he would end it when the contract was up !