First off, Hey, Ian, it's WEDNESDAY! Where are ya, man?
Well, to be honest still recovering from a weekend of drinking, watching the likes of Elvis Costello, Los Lobos, George Clinton and the parliament Funkadelic, SNOOP DOGG, G-love and the special sauce, and Rise Against in the pouring rain. I have been sick and a bit hungover for about 4 days.
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Still feeling a little unsettled, but that is due to my major issue of overanalyzing everything to death.
Please go read what I posted to Trapt and change the names to match your sitch.......
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So, the plan for the next million days or so is to stop assuming.
And this my dear is what my main topic of discussion was going to be with you. I have meant to say this before to you because every post of yours that I was reading had some form or another of assumption or self fulfilling prophecy encased in it. Your tendency is to not be able to stay in the moment and focus on the task at hand. You seem to over analyze your actions to death rather than simply doing what you feel is right and dealing with the results as they come up.
I also want to make sure that you keep in mind the delicate pendulum of pursuit. Make sure it is going both ways evenly and that you are not always the one initiating. You have earned for him to be pursuing more to be honest. He should be the one suggesting things that the two of you can do together and initiating time together.
Do not lose yourself in the quest, that would be a horrible thing to lose.......
