So, now I have to break the news that this is going to take time. (which btw I have in the agreement) She is going to be royally p*ssed and of course it's all gonna be my fault.
May I ask why you feel the need to project what will happen?
May I ask why you give a flying rats arse how she reacts?
May I ask why it is that you still feel the need to think about all of this nonsense in any amount of time other than the amount of time that you want to take?
Did I miss something or do you have some sort of obligation to this woman that I am unaware of? For god's sakes trapt, it's been two years right? So by now I am thinking it is time for you to put on your big boy pants and quit worrying about:
1. Her reactions 2. Her time frames 3. Her time with the kids and how she spends it 4. Any damn thing that involves her at all or what so ever......
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Time to gear up and get ready for some major spewing.
No, it's not... It's time for you to not worry about her spewing. It's time for you to be able to simply walk away from her when she gets attitude. It's time for you to simply grasp that the rewards of marriage and the tolerance that she is permitted by her "husband" are no longer your responsibility. She has to earn those priviliges and she has not been doing so.
I see people on here all the time that lose themselves and their functioning capability as an individual because they project how much their spouses are going to lash out and when it comes to fruition they are not strong enough to defend against it. For Petes sake, being a LBS does not mean that you have to sit back and be a big old pussy and allow yourself to be walked upon and belittles.
You deserve better than that Trapt, you deserve to be happy and you deserve to no longer feel the pain that she inflicts every time she has a little hissy fit.
I haven't posted in a while, I am sorry for that, but I decide to stop by today and see how you were and for the life of me couldn't sit by and not say shitt. So from me to you my friend, man up and get your balls back where they belong. YOU are better than that.
