All work and no play makes Jack a dull boy. All play and no work makes Jack a mere toy.
Look, she might be up to her eyeballs in debt...but not allowing for any fun like going out for the occasional dinner and what's the point? You lose sight of the goal because the grindstone took off your nose and half your face.
You have a better idea of whether or not to trust her on financial issues...and money is one of those bigger trust issues.
Do you trust her enough right now? Do you see yourself trusting her down the road?
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK