I am trying to work through this argument in order to understand myself and my own responses, and also to understand her a bit better, so your perspectives really do help.
I have read Mars & Venus (and learned optimism) but it was several months ago now - amazing how fast we forget and how big the gap is between intellectual understanding and practical application to your own emotions.
Thanks
Me 42, W 39, S8, S6, S2 M 11y, A & ILYBNILWY 11/08 Walking away from a bad situation.