I would Not offer to pay more. You have an agreement and if he wants to renegotiate let him ask. He has choices about money and chooses to not spend wisely that is really his problem. Remember don't make his problems your own.
Also examine your motives. Is there a part of you that would be doing it looking for appreciation from him? Most of the time you will be disappointed. They are in selfish mode and don't appreciate things we do.
Good job recognizing you have to celebrate the positives. Small steps are what it is all about. I have been reminded so many times by people on this board to believe anything they say and only 1/2 of what they do.
Me-38 W-44 D8 & D6 together '95, Wed '97, Bomb 11/18/08 Still in same house
