OMG I am starting to have a mild panic attack thinking about this. My H has made a mess of things. This whole situation is even worse than before. I'm thinking that we all know how much hurt and pain goes along with a breakup and I honestly don't think OW has the emotional, physicological, and mature capability to handle this. And without a good support system in place it can be really hard. For the times I have seen her, I see the insecurity in her face. And its one thing when you have a lot going for yourself but its a whole other to deal with the hurt of breaking up, having two kids in your early twenties and no one else there for you. And I think a big part of OW's family turning on her was that from what I gather they liked her H and they know my H is married and disliked the whole A. My guess is that is why they didn't want to take her in to live with them either. To be honest from the bits and pieces I get from H, I don't even think she has a stable family. Her dad and mom are not together and her mom is in another country even. Oh my my my.
