Oh get this too... something very troubling. He asked me to not throw it back in his face but he said that sometimes he is worried that ow would hurt to her kids. He said that she says some weird things at times. I agreed with him and said that I think ow has mental issues. I honestly do. I never told you guys this but ow assaulted me before adn would even treaten to kill me. Another time she egged my house. And I'm not even sure how she knew where I was living b/c H and I had already moved out if the city. Even if she had gotten my address, I was renting an apt in a house and used a side entrance and only the side entrance was egged so she must have been watching me at some point. And then at one point H had gotten a cell phone for ow and I got hold of it and saw her phone call log and there were several instances that she call H's # for several hours straight, pages of calls to him from one minute to the next. But not only H at times b/c there were other patterns like that and it really screamed obssessive personality to me. There were instances that she would just call me over and over again. I am actually a bit concerned how this will all turn out. I know I should care too much but I asked H if ow is in contact with her family and he said he doesn't know. I have a feeling that she's not. Guys to be honest I have a feeling this will end messy. I just pray that the mess is with ow and H and does not involve me on bit. H made this mess and I think he should deal with it alone.