I think a lack of compassion is the root of all evil in relationships. Failure of compassion is the primary cause of anger, resentment, contempt, disgust, and abuse in relationships.
Yes, the idea of listening to my complaints and even listening with compassion, is a lot better than having a man grab me, or tickle me, or throw me down on the bed for the good F that I need. I wonder how successful Deida has been with that garbage in his own life. I can't even imagine how insecure a man has to be in himself and his own instincts to take this stuff seriously.
