Well, thanks for the encouragement BF45. Hope you're right on that advice part, this gets all too confusing with every little tweak in the plot, so it seems.

I will say, the more that gets resovled by an outside influence, be it counselor, or in my case, judge, the more less diffuse the situtaion seems.

Me 35/XW 33
S13 & S12
M: 10/17/98
OM & S: 07/08
D final 06/09/09
12/03/09 - 06/13/10 "Piercing"
06/13/10: Engaged to Re-marry 10/17/10
06/25/10: Expecting baby #3 2/14/11