It's so confusing trying to keep flip/flopping back and forth
When you are around her be the best CIPA you can. When you are apart be mysterious.
I think you should only go out with her if it is just the two of you. I think it is confusing to the kids if Mom and Dad are seperated, D papers are filed but we still try to act like everything is normal. Plus you can devote more attention and make it more "date like" if it is just the two of you. I think your W thinks everything will be just like now if you get D. She needs to see how real this is for everybody. You can handle it.
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
