Thanks all! Ali, that is really cool to hear...how it all lined up on that particular day. I still intend to go and file when school gets out (two weeks from today!)...so he has a couple of weeks to reach out to me if that is what he chooses.

I will give him some time to mull it over and I do not really expect anything from him. If he wants me in his life, if he wants my support if/when he tackles the issue, he knows what to do.

Strangely enough I called him this morning to tell him Nathan was sick. (Got him into dr. and it is tonsillitis-ick!) Anyway the call dropped and Dan called back 3 x to finish what was basically a one sentence issue--Our kid is sick I will stay home from work today.

Then he called again 2 minutes later to tell me to look out my west windows and I should be able to see a rainbow in the sky. Wtf. Guess he was driving to work and saw it...

Back to the issue at hand, I shared my 'stuff' last night, he didn't deny or argue. So the ball is in his court. If he doesn't want my help I won't force it on him.


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Together: 18 yrs
M-12.5 yrs
S-8
D-4
D'd: Feb. 2010

The LORD your God is with you,
he is mighty to save. --Zeph. 3:17