I'm feeling like I got waylaid some myself. Honestly, if I didn't think it was better for D3 to be in one house and not shuffling between two places during the week I wouldn't have gone for it at all. I feel pretty torn between what is right for me and what is right for D3 and I'm putting D3 ahead of myself in this which I should do since she is affected and has no say in what happens. We are going to establish boundaries and one of those is going to be not to go into each others rooms without the person being in there. Not that she totally couldn't violate that but you have to have some trust right?