Game Over?

[dday101798]

Hi,

Moving over from my thread that I can't believe has not been locked in WAW.

So the brief rundown:

Together 12 years, married 10.5, two boys 10 & 12. Major issues developed 8/04 buying our "dream home" in an inviting market. MIL psses 2 years later, W goes in undetected tailspin, lives the "party life" leaving me to blindly take care of everything else in her absense and thus create my contributiing issues of resentment and emotional withdrawl.

3/07 six months after MIL passes, we learn we are pregnant, presumably with the daughter we both wanted so badly since day one, not to be, baby was lost.

3/08 - 7/2/08 W begins to stray from home, losses main job, the party is the priority of life.

7/10/08 I find W with OM.

7/12/08, W moves out into FIL's, with OM.

Thanksgiving 08 - W announces her engagement to OM to friends and family

2/5/09, in repsonse to a order of protection placed upon her for assaulting me W files for D.

2/6/09 - current, W has temp costudy pending final decree, still lives with OM.

2/15/09 - As promissed 2 months prior and without visitation of the kids, I move out of "our" house.

4/22/09 - after last court date, I decide to opt out of the custody battle and let things be, get my visitation and jsut end the nightmare and not subject the boys to anymore.

5/4/09 - W's attorney FINALLY responds and is accepting of the settlement offer.

Of course inbetween this timeline, there were times of "hope" all though I'm not sure if I believe them. Most striking was New Years, W claimed she wanted to be with me, of course wasn't, we had 2 meetings afterwards to 'talk' in which W claims to still have extreme feelings for me, wants to work at things, but is all ended with "too comitted to OM and kids are too attached"