Wondering how to handle things

[mishka422]

Ok, vacation suggestions first......because you definitely need one.

Outer Banks (not too far for you at least)
Colonial Williamsburgh, VA
Crabbing town on the Chesapeake Bay
Cape Cod
Rockland, Maine - lobstering town - very quaint

Second.......gee, big shock that the OW is separated. Um, hello, 3 months and married. How dumb is that? Of course, that is her problem, not yours. If your H allows himself to be sucked back in by her, then he's even weaker than we all thought. Let him go Kissak. Decide...what do YOU want?

Do you want a D? Are you done with him? Do you think he could ever become a man you could respect and trust?

If not, then why do you need to wait for him to get the papers to you? Do it yourself. Be proactive and control your own life.

I am in no way advocating D, I'm only asking the hard questions to hear your honest take on it.

So, what is your next step? What does Kissak want in her life? For her kids?