Hi chel, Have you read anything on Mid life crises? Its happening younger and younger these days. Is there any chance that he wants to relocate and you wont agree so maybe hes trying to go the middle track?

No more freak outs. You can lose it later, now you have to stay calm and get the work done. Why are these other friends so attractive? What is it about their lifestyle does he feel like hes missing out on? And is it anything that you can help provide for him? Has he been depressed lately? Are you two stuck in a rut?

No, him walking away from his M is absolutely not right, but hes trying and you are just as much responsible for trying right now too. Im just saying try to see things from his side right now, it cant hurt anything, and who knows, it might help.

Also, you dont HAVE to have him there for marriage counseling, it would help, but its not absolutely necessary, and if its something that you feel like you really need to do, then go for it.

Last edited by bluerain; 05/07/09 05:32 PM.
I guess I gave the wrong finger to the wrong man...