Originally Posted By: AliSuddenly
So.. if you dont understand your womans mood, ask her whats wrong and listen to the answer.


Isn't that a problem for most women though? I can tell you that when anyone asks me what is wrong, I never give an answer other than 'nothing'. Now, we all know that is woman code for 'What's wrong? I'll tell you what's wrong!' Unfortunately, most women are wired to never complain which translates to never tell those you love how you are hurting, how you are feeling, what would help you be more content, etc.. I know that I was certainly taught that from an early age. Voicing your feelings would only lead to hurting the person you are voicing them to. Can anyone say dysfunctional?

Now, tell me I'm wrong. Tell me that the majority of women don't answer this way. I still do it too, even after all I've learned. I just can't open that can of worms because I don't want to be labeled for it.

OK......I asked for it.....fire away!


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confused....to say the least!!!