Do not, (seldom do I attack the spouse but in your case...) Do not, let this bitch's perception of who you are affect the reality of who you are. You are a good man Charlie Brown.
Ask any of the women here, you are a good catch...heck ask some of the guys too. : )...just not me.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK