Everyday you have a choice on how to view your sitch. One quote fom here that helped me: "the people who had success kept a PMA and saw the good in the situation."
Nobody asked to be here, so bloom where you are planted. DBing was the hardest thing I ever did. You can handle it. Cheers
Hard to be positive about it Coach! It may be more healthy to look at it that way. But when you make the most important person in the world so miserable that they leave you, because you were an idiot, it's hard to cast a positive light on that!
I know, bad things have happened to all of us here. This is the most painful, hardest, awful thing I've ever dealt with! I know we have to make the best of a bad situation, but the loss is especially hard to take when one has screwed up so badly!
"Always go straight forward, and if you meet the devil, cut him in two and go between the pieces." - William Sturgis, clipper ship captain, 1830's.