Oh my good god! This is some debate. Well I will wade in and all I know, or what I have learnt in watching others R's and certainly in my own... lack of communication is the root of all evil. Or the wrong type of communication (90% of arguments are all just noise, nobody listens once you start yelling). So.. if you dont understand your womans mood, ask her whats wrong and listen to the answer. If you think you may be being too controlling and ignoring your H's needs, ask him his opinion and take it on board. So... better listening skills ?
Me:40! H:37 Together: 12yrs IDLY & left 11/07 ADs 03/08 OW 8/08 Reconciled 05/09 now married! my thread