ok first of all Thank you PD, SP, Burt, AJM I will follow ALL of your advice.

and I agree with all of you I will NOT talk about important issues with W over text anymore. This has always been a problem for us because we both hate to talk on the phone and texting is just more convienent however, it will not happen again...

SP: that is my career field in the military AMMO. BOMBS!!!!! EXPLOSIVES!!!!! \:\)