Quote: see...I walked away...but I was dealing with batchitt crazy...but having said that...detachment is still a good thing..it prepares you for what may happen or what might not happen..and if your truly detached..you'll be damn good either way I think you should really add to this part - it's not that you'll be damn good either way, it's that you need to be damn good in spite of what's going on. Separately from what's going on between you and your spouse. That's detachment. You are damn good and can *choose* to love your spouse vs. needing to.
Something to consider.
I don't know that there is anything to add...I never ever felt like I "needed" to love Kim..I chose to when we first met though at the time i thought I just "fell" in love with her...I now believe you don't just "fall"...I believe you make a decision...
I believe that if you are truly detached then you will be good either way..married, divorced, single...whatever...see we ALL rely on others for our happiness and the truth is..the only one who can make you happy is you..
Batchiit crazy made me walk...and i don't regret it for a second..I don't second guess it..I'm a happy boy...and I made happy for myself..
