The hardest part of what to "do" is that you have to do nothing for him. Because you cannot. He has to do it. You can do things for you. And you should do for you at this point.
Make yourself happy and the rest will fall into place.
Existential and philosophical I know, but.....
Mike:
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see...I walked away...but I was dealing with batchitt crazy...but having said that...detachment is still a good thing..it prepares you for what may happen or what might not happen..and if your truly detached..you'll be damn good either way
I think you should really add to this part - it's not that you'll be damn good either way, it's that you need to be damn good in spite of what's going on. Separately from what's going on between you and your spouse. That's detachment. You are damn good and can *choose* to love your spouse vs. needing to.
Something to consider.
AJ
"Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter" MLK Put the glass down... "Yesterday I was clever so I wanted to change the world Today I am wise, so I am changing myself."
