Being a bit of a nerdy astrologer... I found it fascinating that you had THAT convo, just on the day that Mercury, planet of communications went retrograde (backwards - so, literally, going back over things, past issues being bought back up) and as in a "Finger of God" pattern with Pluto (squared to Venus) and the North Node - our highest and "true destiny".

It was said that whatever the "Pluto" issue is in your life right now, if this pattern touched you directly, something or someone would be giving you the message that its time to face your demons. You Bobbi, were the messenger, you were the finger of god, pointing at Dan !! Pluto square venus rules all things of a taboo s*xual nature, bondage, power, control, dominance in male-female Rs, porn etc.. so, pretty fitting really.

Anyway.. I think his silence spoke volumes.. and his "you could be right".. I am guessing Dan is an iceberg and there were a tonne of thought running through his mind that yuo may not be privy too.

This "Finger of God" effect, which was exact yesterday, is in effect for a few more weeks yet.. so I would give him at least that time to process what you said, and in the meantime.. wait and do nothing.

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