You did well with fighting for your daughter, she is the one that left the d, not you. You are the man that is there everyday with her, you know what is best because she is NOT there.
Now, you need to learn to shut the hell up. And did you actually text her. Quit doing that, just sit there, let her come to you, she should be sitting there thinking about how her actions just may loose her daughter, instead you comeback saying how OK everything is going to be.
I let my wife know that it was not going to be this rosy, hunky dory divorce, that I was going to fight for every minute that I would be able to see my sons. I told her to get out of la la land because this was going to be hard on me, harder on her, and the hardest on the children. And when she accused me using the children against her, I would ask, tell me where I am wrong. Silence. OK I have got to go, see ya.
To get the WAS out of La La land, you must insert doubt in their head of their decision.
