I just got an email from my X. She is asking to pick the kids up at 11:00am and to drop them back off at 4:00pm for mother's day. They take a nap from 1pm to 2:30pm. WTF.

Mother's day is actually her day to have them. Whatever.....works for me, she can have them for a few hours if that's all she wants.

She will not leave me alone regarding updating her about the mortgage either. She thinks I will just be able to refinance and be done. Wrong. I can't with the way my finances are. My only option is to go through their hardship program which is a major pain in the @ss and takes a lot of time. Hell, I may still have to sell this place.

So, now I have to break the news that this is going to take time. (which btw I have in the agreement) She is going to be royally p*ssed and of course it's all gonna be my fault.

Time to gear up and get ready for some major spewing.


Don't stand still.