..but the way you deal with Gabe and talk about him, kinda sounds defeatist anyway! From an outsiders perspective, I feel he has regretted his decison for a long time, is very unhappy and misses you. Whether he's capable of stepping up and talking to you in a constructive way and whether you would consider giving him a 2nd chance.. well, guess its looking unlikey, but I cant help feeling hopeful that its possible! Am I just crazy??
or maybe since he has been kicked around by the broom lately and back to Cali may be difficult for him due to financial restraints...he may just be looking for a soft place to land....familiar territory...
or he may be coming back...ya gotta prepare and decide what you will or won't allow either way....
