Hi Mark,

stay strong, I know how difficult the mornings can be.
Like you, my D7 is suffering now with the aftermath of my H walking out on us and living with OW. She struggles in so many different ways.
You need to try and stay strong for them, try and be the honourable parent and carer.
Like you and your W, my H wants nothing to do with me; very cursory communication and at this stage he is only prepared to communicate via email.
At the end of the day I believe that for LBS we need to remember that it is not about us; it is about their confusion and we need to baton down the hatches to withstand the adversity that comes with this.
If you proceed with dignity and integrity you will triumph.