Honey, I know how hard this is, it just breaks your heart, doesn't it? We are both with these men for such a long time and love so deeply and unconditionally.

I do not think you should do anything. Try really hard to limit those personal emails. Keep them short. Making him feel guilty is not good for you or your sitch. He will see it and blame you for it.

He knows what he is missing out on. He does. Let him be. He needs to work through all this himself.

We never know what the future holds. This is a journey that was necessary.

You will be ok. Basic dbing now - focus on you, not him, GAL, PMA. Come on now, you could do this.

Last edited by beginnersmind; 05/07/09 11:49 AM.