Good not to be reactive to her comments, but also good to take note of her comments. She is feeling pressured.
Could you be doing more in the way of non-sexual touch, verbal affirmation, and other gestures that tell her that you love her for her? What is she passionate about? What does she love? Do thoughtful things that show that you know her and love who she is.
She needs to be shown that you're not the enemy. That you're not just ready to take take take.
What are you doing for yourself these days? GALing works for sex-starved ones, too. The more interesting your life is, the more intriguing you will be to her.
