You sent the OM a letter via email? So, she agreed to no contact, and the OM knows it. But, yet, they talked.
Yes, sent via e-mail. They both knew what no contact means, and both broke that. Context of e-mail:
Quote:
<om>, I wanted to share with you that I know what was going on with my wife, and have known for approximately two weeks. I knew about it before she e-mailed you breaking it off. I also know about the ensuing conversation you had with her the next day.
I do hope that it is really over, and I will do what ever is necessary to make sure that it is. Simply, I expect no further contact what so ever with my wife in ANY way. It is over. No "I'm sorry", no "are you ok"...NOTHING. This is now between her and myself.
As disgusted as I am, I do honestly hope you figure out what's going on within your own marriage with <wife name omitted> and work on that. Regardless of why you were having a relationship outside of your own marriage and family, I can tell you, your wife <wife name omitted> and child do not deserve this and what you are doing.
I suppose I really did not see no contact as being a hard thing to follow through with. It is very obvious to me how important it is, I but did not really think about it from her side. So the points you all make about what it is like from my w's perspective makes sense.
I agree about moving schools BTW, but with three weeks left, I thought we could manage through without completely disrupting the kids schedule, routine, and such.
First marriage counseling session this morning. We are both going, so that's something positive!
