I have read your sitch with interest, you are getting great advice by the look of things.
For fear of hijacking your sitch I was advised by a fellow poster that gucciloafer has some great advice on 'dropping the rope', as I am having real trouble detaching from my wife. Gucciloafer please could you send a post and link to me on Newcomers with the advice I need. Many thanks.
AFWAW, thank you and best wishes, I will continue to read your sitch.
Mark
Bomb dropped: 19/12/08 Me:48 WAW:41 D:10 S:6 Married: 15 years