Renee, all statistics are based on a SAMPLING. There is no way you can talk to everyone. Everybody is different, but based upon what I have seen on this board, I would estimate the success rate of reunion of abut 5-10% and I think that is a high percentage.
I concur. I recently did a straw poll of people who had posted regularly to me over the past year+, out of curiosity and their outcomes.. came out around 10%. I then made a list up with another DBer, so more posters, still 10% (including those that stopped posting, like Abbey and ITH etc)... looking across the boards, 10% max and some of those sitches are looking shaky, so 5-10% is probably about right for success.
Which is what I think the figure would be regardless of DBing, that some ex's DO just want you back in time.
Sunshine, your ex sounds pretty cruel. He is planning on M a 24 year old, he doesnt sound very sorted out. We can all keep saying the same things to you, that its very sad, but looks like this man has walked out on you and isnt making any attempts to even give you friendship. Take good care of yourself.