This was the conversation after the post above

Me: Im sorry you got pissed its a sensitive subject for both of us because we care about her if you would like to talk about it later I'm willing too

W: U have no idea how pissed i am. The fact that u r even bringing up taking full custody blows me the F*uc away. And no i dont want to talk about it. u have stooped to a new low (that one really really hurt)

Me: Im only trying to figure out what's best for D I dont know what that is right now i didnt even say i wanted to take any custody from you im just trying to figure that out with you. not in a screaming match. what's best for her is that we work this out but thats not possible according to you so im just trying to figure out which causes less drama for her what best for her not me and you.

W: Whatever. All ive wanted since this started is no drama and what best for her is that we dont fight and the future we will work out when that times comes. Im going to bed. (dont agree with this at all other than the no fighting part, we will worry about the future when the time comes??? i think we owe her more than that we are already ripping her life apart with a D and then to say well we will just have to worry about whatever later i think we can plan and give her more than that.)

Yet to be sent still sitting on my phone trying to decide to send it or just give up with her about it...

Me: I just want you to know that i dont want any drama neither but whatever happens, no matter what me and/or you decide its only has to do with what's best for amaya and that i will always no matter what understand that, that it doesnt have anything to do with you pesonally or me personally. Im not angry at you and I would never use our daughter in any way for the sake of this relationship whatever it may be.