I know i got something i would like for you to look at PD about to post it now...
she is not a bad mother, its just i feel my D has a more stable environment with me. and so do other highly involved in my D's life... I dont want to be the bad guy and even if this does go south i dont want to be on bad terms with my W. She still is the mother of my child and i want her to be in my D's life without the drama or hate between us...