Ammo, you might think that you screwed up, but you did the RIGHT thing. Standing up to your W and telling her firmly that you don't want this, but you have to be there for your D was the most courageous thing that you could do. Of course the WAW is going to throw a hissy-fit: you aren't marching along to the tune of her drumbeat! You are showing her that you have a backbone, and you are not codependent.
It hurts right now because you were in a disagreement with her and she hung up. believe me, they will stamp their feet, yell, cuss, call you every name in the book and be as nasty, petty, and spiteful as they possibly can: but you held your ground. It was a victory: both for yourself and daughter, but for your R should you want it back later.
Stay strong; keep your D at the focus of why you are doing this and work on yourself. Your W will notice that you can't be pushed, pulled, or short-shifted. That will make you look better in her eyes, not worse.
Me40 WAW37 M18 T20 S18,14 D13 EA Bomb 6/08 Sep 11/20/08 Ret 08/09 Sep/Filed 11/09
