Learning to Detach

[kjensen]

Thanks BM and IL!
Patience and looking down a long road are not my forte but I am doing my best. I guess its the small steps forward that keep my at it..

IL:
I have to say that my H was pretty much my "first" except for a one night stand in college. H had had more experience than me, but not much. My H said that he thought he was in love with the OW before he moved out and that he'd never felt this way about anyone(his heart would pound when he saw her..) and he never thought anyone like her(great body from perpetual working out) would be attracted to him. The attraction was so strong( just add "that it could no be denied")! Blahblah blah! Highschool stuff. The websites H checks out are definitely college-y male oriented T & A stuff.. He's in replay. Just remember our Hs in MLC are not the men we married..'temporary' insanity/regression.
My H didn't deal with abusive father/dysfunctional family stuff.. Your H has a lot of deaths of loved ones to deal with..We wait while they deal(hopefuly). Expect the unexpected..