Thanks, Sara. I took a page from the Retro experience. For the letter I wrote (and I did write it, except I told it to him from the letter instead of giving it to him to read), I used the setup from the Retro weekend.
Do I see the real you? And can I accept you as you are?
It was something to that effect. And so I told him how I saw him, struggling, lost, adrift in a raging sea with no navigation, in despair. And I told him that i thought porn was the reason for it. Weighing him down and crushing him into the ground...but i already posted yesterday what I was going to say. It was pretty much the same. And I finished by saying YES, I would accept him as he was and support him if he wanted to free himself from the burden he was carrying by hiding it from everyone.
