OK now I am going to have to pray about this because I have absolutely no idea what happens next...
Although my first thought is to leave it alone for the time being and let him simmer/process it...
I would imagine he was surprised that I recognized it if it has really been going on this long and I never said anything before.
I said I am here if he wants/needs anything so I have to trust that he heard me and let it be.
Hey Kalni FYI I did tell him that I love having sex with him, I enjoyed doing fun things with him, I missed having sex/being intimate with him, etc etc. He knows I love him and I want him (physically). He said he knew that and believed it completely...