LOL. I just saw this. I think in my sitch, tying the sex to money or anything would be a BAD move...our sex life was so hurting in R and it needs to be free and clear of any baggage or manipulation IF it happens. He is sleeping elsewhere and has proclaimed that our R is "done." Using sex would be weird and more of the same in this case.
But thanks anyway, in a different R and one that was in tact, it might work.
