I truly hope that you do not think I disapprove of what you do..it's up to you how you go about what you do in your sitch..I only caution you to not get drawn onto the coaster...
he was on that boat a while...and it appears from an outsider looking in that nothing at all changed for him...
you changed..he has not...I've said on here many times to many different people..they either come back or they don't and it's on their time line...as long as you are prepared either way then I think you'll be good..
Mike--
The only coaster I am having to watch out is getting sucked into the drama between DH and the kids--because as a mom I want to protect them.
I will be honest, I knew not to expect any changes, but I did hope for them. I knew, unless he ended communication with her, he had no reason to make changes. And I was, unfortunately, right.
I did not want to live my life in a rut of self-pity and doubt, anger and bitterness. I chose to look into me and see what I needed to do to make my life different. DH will eventually get there. It is not going to be an easy road and he will have a lot of damage to repair with the kids when he comes home. But, he will know, unequivocably, thta he does not face the challenge alone. I will walk right beside him, as I always have.
Living God's blessings with grace and dignity~ SMW
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Love never gives up, never loses faith, is always hopeful, and endures through every circumstance. I Corinthians 13:7
