I truly hope that you do not think I disapprove of what you do..it's up to you how you go about what you do in your sitch..I only caution you to not get drawn onto the coaster...
he was on that boat a while...and it appears from an outsider looking in that nothing at all changed for him...
you changed..he has not...I've said on here many times to many different people..they either come back or they don't and it's on their time line...as long as you are prepared either way then I think you'll be good..
