Originally Posted By: Puppy Dog Tails
Why do you question it? You're doing perfectly!

I agree 100%. You are an inspiration to many, an example of how to stand for your marriage while still GAL'ing and setting some very appropriate boundaries.

Honestly, I see a bit of a difficulty in communication--putting one's faith in being guided by Christian principles vs. astrological principles and the movement of the planets (created and set in motion by God, in my book anyway). I think there's probably an inherent difference in perspective there.

For me, your H's response to what you said was very, very telling. And you said what you said not to provoke a response, but to protect your children. He got it. He also got that "you must really love me."

No, please DON'T stop posting.


M60
H52
D20
M14 yrs
OW-old gf from 1986
bomb-5/18/08
H filed for D-9/10/08
D final 4/24/09
xH remarried (not OW) 2012