Thanks for all the great info. I really need to go out and get the book. I'm just wondering now if this is something I should do in secret. If she sees this book I get the feeling that she will see it as another ploy to try to get her to have sex more often which will undermine everything I try. At the same time it will be hard to read the book in secret. The ideal might be to start working on what the book talks about by myself and when I start to notice her becoming more receptive introduce the book then. I'm just not entirely sure how I'll hide it, and I don't like the idea of hiding stuff from her.
A dream it's true
But I'd see it through
If I could be
Wasting my time with you
-Band:Phish Song:Waste